ययाति (Yayati)
V. S. Khandekar“Perhaps my favourite book. A story about desire, fulfilment, excess and the point at which one finally asks: how much is enough?”
A mythological retelling from the Mahabharata that cuts to the core of human insatiability. King Yayati borrows the youth of his son Puru to pursue unending sensory pleasures, only to realize that desire is never quenched by indulgence—it only flares higher, like fire fed with ghee. It is the literary foundation beneath my questions on digital consumption, attention, and sovereign restraint.
The Core Favourites
The Bhagavad Gita
FAVOURITE“The question beneath every action: what is my dharma, and how should I act?”
Read not as dogma, but as an urgent conversation on moral paralysis, detached action (Nishkama Karma), and clarity in the middle of battlefield noise.
Thinking, Fast and Slow
FAVOURITE“One of the books that most directly connects to how I now think about decisions, cognitive overload and human-centred systems.”
Maps the vulnerabilities of human cognition (System 1 vs System 2), revealing how easily our attention and choices are hacked when environments aren't intentionally designed.
Rework
FAVOURITE“Build less. Keep things simple. Don't confuse busyness with progress.”
The guiding philosophy behind my bootstrapped Webivorous years. Proof that small, focused teams can ship durable software without bloated corporate theatre.
Samajik Samrasta (सामाजिक समरसता)
FAVOURITE“Social harmony cannot remain an abstract ideal; it has to become lived reality.”
A compilation of writings on social inclusion, caste harmony, and grassroots reform. Having a signed copy makes it a tangible reminder of the balance between national scale and grassroots social fabric.
How to Fight
FAVOURITE“Fighting does not always mean defeating someone. Often the first battle is with what is happening inside.”
A pocket meditation on anger, mindful holding, and recognizing internal conflict before projecting it outward onto people or code.
Himalayan Lust
FAVOURITE“Mountains, seeking and the attraction of a life beyond ordinary ambition.”
Resonated strongly during the transition period leading to my solo backpacking travels across India and eventual settlement in Kashi.
Dharma & Inner Life
Inquiries into duty, restraint, civilizational memory, and inner equilibrium.
The Bhagavad Gita
FAVOURITEThe question beneath every action: what is my dharma, and how should I act?
Vishnu Purana
INFLUENTIALAn encounter with the enormous civilizational memory behind the world I grew up in.
How to Fight
FAVOURITEFighting does not always mean defeating someone. Often the first battle is with what is happening inside.
The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari
INFLUENTIALOne of my early encounters with the idea that success without an inner life is incomplete.
Who Will Cry When You Die?
INFLUENTIALMade me think about the difference between merely living and leaving something meaningful behind.
Himalayan Lust
FAVOURITEMountains, seeking and the attraction of a life beyond ordinary ambition.
India, Society & Civilization
The tension between inherited past, constitutional reality, and civilizational continuity.
Samajik Samrasta (सामाजिक समरसता)
FAVOURITESocial harmony cannot remain an abstract ideal; it has to become lived reality.
India, Bharat
INFLUENTIALThe tension and relationship between the India we inherited, the Bharat we remember, and the country we are building.
India, Bharat & Pakistan
INFLUENTIALHistory becomes much more complicated when you stop looking at nations only through modern borders.
Hindu Temples: What Happened to Them
INFLUENTIALArchitecture, ritual and civilization meeting in physical stone.
The Story of Mira Bai
INFLUENTIALBhakti as something lived with radical conviction rather than merely studied.
Literature & The Human Condition
Stories of human vulnerability, desire, and emotional reality before everything was made into a system.
ययाति (Yayati)
FAVOURITEPerhaps my favourite book. A story about desire, fulfilment, excess and the point at which one finally asks: how much is enough?
Everyone Has a Story
ARCHIVEPeople are rarely as simple as the version of them we see.
The Impossible Love
ARCHIVEAn earlier, more emotional side of my reading — before everything had to become a system.
Come On, Inner Peace! I Don't Have All Day!
ARCHIVEThe irony in the title is the point: we spend enormous effort trying to manufacture peace on a schedule.
Mind & Human Behaviour
Cognitive overload, decision-making, biological systems, and memory.
Thinking, Fast and Slow
FAVOURITEOne of the books that most directly connects to how I now think about decisions, cognitive overload and human-centred systems.
Gut: The Inside Story of Our Body's Most Underrated Organ
INFLUENTIALThe body is a system too. Understanding ourselves requires looking beyond the mind.
5 Minds for the Future
INFLUENTIALDifferent kinds of thinking matter; intelligence is not a single dimension.
Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion
INFLUENTIALUnderstanding persuasion is useful precisely because it makes you more aware of when you are being persuaded.
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
INFLUENTIALAn early lesson in not allowing imagined futures to consume the present.
How to Memorize Anything
ARCHIVECuriosity about how the mind learns, remembers, and retains information under pressure.
Building, Work & Entrepreneurship
Principles of craft, conduct, bootstrapped execution, and strategic persistence.
Rework
FAVOURITEBuild less. Keep things simple. Don't confuse busyness with progress.
The Professional
INFLUENTIALBeing good at something is not enough. Professionalism is a way of conducting yourself.
The Persuasive Manager
INFLUENTIALIdeas only matter when you can communicate them clearly enough for other people to act on them.
The Dip
INFLUENTIALNot every difficult thing deserves persistence. Sometimes quitting is the intelligent decision.
The 30-Something CEO
ARCHIVEPart of the earlier ambition: understanding what it means to build something while still young.
Entrepreneur 5 PM to 9 AM
ARCHIVEAn artifact from the period when entrepreneurship was still something I was trying to understand from books.
Arise, Awake
ARCHIVEStories of young Indian founders choosing to build rather than simply follow an established corporate track.
Think and Grow Rich
ARCHIVEAn early exposure to ambition, belief and the psychology of achievement. Kept as a historical marker.
Money, Success & Selling
An earlier phase of understanding market forces and ambition from the outside.
13 Steps to Bloody Good Wealth
ARCHIVEPragmatic financial discipline and foundational asset allocation.
The Art of Selling
ARCHIVEClassic sales persuasion and understanding consumer psychology.
Technology — The Early Years
Technical manuals and developer guides from the early decade of web mastery.
JavaScript & jQuery: Interactive Front-End Web Development
ARCHIVEVisual introduction to clientside DOM manipulation and dynamic browser interactions.
CSS Mastery: Advanced Web Standards Solutions
ARCHIVEPrecision cross-browser layout craft during the early standards movement.
ASP.NET & ASP.NET 4.0 Framework Architecture
ARCHIVEEnterprise backend service structures during the Swaransoft and enterprise era.
Technical Web Development Interviews
ARCHIVEAn artifact from the early career job search era.
The General Library Archive
Volumes owned across college years, early technical roles, and casual reading. They document the path taken, but do not dictate present intellectual direction.
- ·General JavaScript, PHP & MySQL Reference Guides (2011–2014)
- ·SEO & Search Optimization Handbooks (Early Agency Days)
- ·Interview Preparation & Aptitude Problem Manuals
- ·Generic Motivation & Productivity Pocketbooks
- ·Early College Computer Science & Network Engineering Volumes
From personal reading to systems design.
